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April 21, 2016

Long Overdue

Filed under: Travel — Karma @ 9:26 am
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The title of this post has dual meaning. I am long overdue to write a blog post. It has been a wonderful spring with so many enjoyable moments! As I’ve looked around and enjoyed posts from Robin, Dawn, Kathy (welcome back!), Mike, Amy, Gerry and Carol, I get so very inspired to write and then something else takes my attention and I don’t do it. I decided to change that this morning and actually do it, so I started scrolling through the photos on my phone, looking back at the moments I wanted to remember for one reason or another. (Sorry Rebel camera, I have been very bad about picking you up and making use of you lately. I promise to change that soon!) My plan was to write another post similar to the last one I did – a journalish kind of post updating what’s been going on so that I had words to go with my photos. As I scrolled, I realized I had more than enough photos to focus on one very special event, one that was indeed long overdue.

Long time readers will know that my sister Jennifer, our best friend Renae and I have been like the three muskateers for most of our lives – literally we have been friends for 40 years! Since we were 4, 5 and 6 years old respectively. Even though Renae does not live as close to us as we would like any more (she was just down the street as we grew up), we make the time to see each other throughout the year. We have taken girls getaway weekends together. In 2014, we were planning another little trip together to a seaside town in New Hampshire. Then horrific news struck. I think Renae will be okay with me sharing this at this point, as she has gone public with what she has been through on her Facebook page, Renae was diagnosed with breast cancer and discovered she carries the breast cancer gene. A double mastectomy followed, then chemo and radiation. A year from hell. Strong, amazing woman that she is, Renae is doing well and feeling healthy these days and is a strong advocate for research into Stage 4 cancer – the constant fear in the back of any cancer survivor’s mind.

Back when Renae was diagnosed and we had to cancel our girls’ weekend, we promised ourselves that when she was well and ready, we would do a BIG celebratory trip – not somewhere within driving distance, somewhere we would have to get on an airplane together to reach – something we’d never done before. And we finally did it. Just about 3 weeks ago, the three of us boarded a plane to Fort Lauderdale, Florida.

After a very late arrival Friday night due to a long delay and rerouting of our flight due to strong thunderstorms happening in parts of the south, we woke up Saturday morning to a beautiful day.
First Ft Lauderdale morning
view from hotel room balcony

I could feel my entire body just relax into being present in where I was – a warm, tropical climate with my best friends in the world with no agenda other than to plop ourselves on the beach and enjoy each others’ company.
On Ft Lauderdale beach

Since we did not rent a car – just about everything you might want or need is in walking distance in Ft. Lauderdale – cocktails from the poolside tiki bar at the hotel were indulged in just about anytime we felt like it!
Beach cocktails!
Something melon-y. I don’t remember the name, but it was good!

Our hotel
This is the hotel from the beach. That thatched roof you see to the right side of the photo is the tiki bar. Very convenient!

Just because
This is a great picture representing how we spent our days. Lounge on the beach, go for a walk, go for a swim – whatever we wanted. I went for an invigorating swim in the ocean in amazingly warm water with some wild crashing waves. It made me feel so very alive and thankful and conscious of appreciating the present moment.

Each night we walked to dinner at a local restaurant and we were not disappointed with any of our choices. How wonderful to walk the sidewalks and see tropical flowers in bloom as we went!

Tropical flowers

I think the three of us would agree our favorite meal was at Greek Islands Taverna. We had a wonderful Greek waiter who recommended this delicious Greek wine.
Wonderful Greek wine
We would love to be able to find this wine for sale back home somewhere!

We shared a Greek salad as an appetizer – Renae took this shot of me with it.
Me, with Greek salad

And I had a delicious moussaka for my entree.
Fabulous dinner

We were super full from a great meal that night, but we couldn’t resist taking some dessert to share to go – baklava AND baklava cheesecake!

The next night’s dinner was at Aruba Beach Cafe. Another wonderful choice. Our bartender took this picture of the three of us while we waited for our table:
That was one delicious margarita! Well, I think it was actually two delicious margaritas…

Appetizer and dinner that night:
Conch fritters
Conch fritters

Seafood quesadilla
Seafood quesadilla

Our final dinner together was at 101 Ocean.
Crab, artichoke and spinach dip
Crab, artichoke and spinach dip

Lobster paella
Lobster Paella

Both the Aruba Cafe and 101 Ocean are located in the quaint neighborhood of Lauderdale-by-the-Sea, a cute little touristy area with shops and restaurants and ice cream. We decided that last night to enjoy one last walk on the beach – walked from the restaurant to the hotel. On the approach to our hotel, I noticed the palm trees there were decorated with lights and had to take a quick picture:
Lit palm trees

We had an early flight home on Tuesday morning, so on Monday morning I took an opportunity to enjoy an early morning solo walk on the beach.
Morning walk

I was so very appreciative that we made the time to take this trip. It is one I will remember forever, and something that I hope we make a tradition – perhaps an annual one. Thank you Jennifer and Renae for this wonderful experience!
Last day on the beach


  1. Thank you for sharing the joy, Karen! I know that journey, Renae. Nothing in the world beats having good company walking along beside you. Dance on!

    Comment by Gerry — April 21, 2016 @ 9:38 am | Reply

    • Thank you Gerry. I didn’t know that you too are also a survivor – I hope all is well and wish you the best as the journey continues.

      Comment by Karma — April 22, 2016 @ 7:46 am | Reply

  2. Something about this makes me teary. Good friends. Great place. Taking time to breath and laugh and eat and walk together. That’s really special. I have two great college friends near, and one in California. We need to do this.

    Comment by dawnkinster — April 21, 2016 @ 10:21 am | Reply

  3. The embroidery of life, these experiences. I think it’s adventures like this that make all the less pleasant parts of life worth it. So good to hear from you again!

    Comment by Carol — April 21, 2016 @ 11:19 am | Reply

  4. Wonderful adventure. What a way to enjoy your friendship! Thanks for sharing this with us.

    Comment by Mike — April 21, 2016 @ 7:51 pm | Reply

    • Thanks Mike – I didn’t end up going for the great photography on this trip, but that was ok!

      Comment by Karma — April 22, 2016 @ 7:49 am | Reply

  5. Such a wonderful blog Karen. I am teary too! I am so happy the 3 of you had this time together. This is a beautiful friendship that I have had the privilege of watching since the infamous first day at the bus stop.

    The pictures are gorgeous. Love the tropical colors and feeling of warmth.

    Comment by Trish Dinsmore — April 21, 2016 @ 9:03 pm | Reply

  6. Oh you are so lucky to have each other. So glad Renae is well and you could do this trip. Love the “mustache” wisp of hair in that last image ! (Trust ME to point that out). What wonderful memories you’ll treasure and add to NEXT year.

    Comment by sybil — April 22, 2016 @ 8:03 am | Reply

    • Ha, ha – I never saw the mustache!! Thanks Sybil!

      Comment by Karma — April 22, 2016 @ 8:38 am | Reply

  7. This is such a–sigh–lovely post, Karma. I love the way this came together. From Renea and her challenges and perseverance to that last picture of the three of you. I admire that you’re still friends, all these years later. And that you all look so adorable. Thank you for sharing this. (And for the welcome back blogging. That was so sweet!)

    Comment by Kathy — April 22, 2016 @ 2:51 pm | Reply

    • Thank you Kathy. Your gentle reminders through blog or FB posts are always a help to me in remembering to be present and appreciative.

      Comment by Karma — April 22, 2016 @ 5:10 pm | Reply

      • Awwww, thank YOU my friend!

        Comment by Kathy — April 22, 2016 @ 5:12 pm

  8. Love and miss my jive turkeys!! xoxo (didn’t notice Jennifer’s fingers stealing pieces of the Greek salad while I was taking the picture…Land-o-Lakes!!)

    Comment by Renae — May 1, 2016 @ 11:41 am | Reply

  9. Karma, when will school be out for you? Hoping to see another blog sometime soon. (We have three half days left at our little school. Even though I work during the summer, it will be time to reduce hours a bit to maybe nine hours a week.)

    Comment by Kathy — June 5, 2016 @ 1:18 pm | Reply

    • June 17th is my last day for the year. I keep writing blog posts in my head but somehow never manage to get them posted! Hoping that will change soon! 🙂

      Comment by Karma — June 5, 2016 @ 1:34 pm | Reply

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